
Why we don’t have kids: We have sex four times a week and get laid on the weekends – why screw it up?
The Childfree couple have revealed why they’re not interested in having children – revealing their non-parent status means they have sex four times a week, go on 12 holidays a year and like to get laid every weekend.
According to Taylor Vasu, 28, and her husband Justin, 27, of Orange County, Californiathey don’t want to be “unhappy having children”.
The couple are deliberately childless and call themselves DINKS – meaning double income without children.
Taylor and Justin, who have been together for six years, spend their free time traveling, going out for spontaneous dinners, working out together and sleeping over on the weekends.
They book “a week’s notice” off work and say they have “wild sex” four times a week.
The couple (pictured) say not having children allows them to enjoy their free time and take 12 holidays a year
Taylor believes it would be “irresponsible” for her and Justin, an IT sales manager, to have children now as they are “expensive” and they want to wait until they are “financially prepared”.
Instead of saving money for future children, it’s time to save for buying a house.
Taylor is “terrified” by the strain that having a baby can put on a marriage and says she doesn’t want to end up like others she knows, with children who are “often unhappy”.
Taylor, an interior designer, said: “Most people say that when you have children, your life is over.
“It makes us not want to have them. People sometimes make me feel guilty by saying that my mother clock is ticking.
“I tell them, ‘You’re just angry at the consequences of your actions, I don’t want to be miserable like you.’
“We can do whatever we want, whenever we want, and I don’t want to give that up.”
The married couple met in college in July 2017 and married in Hawaii in June 2022 and are not planning on having children anytime soon.

According to Taylor (pictured with Justin), people told her that once you have kids, ‘your life is over’

Now the couple (pictured) says they want to save and ensure financial preparation for starting a family
Taylor says the pandemic is the main reason behind their decision to stop having children.
She said: “We lost two years of our lives to Covid. We both love to travel – this has always been the basis of our relationship.
“Now that the world is working again, we want to visit all the places we missed.”
They plan to visit Mexico, Colorado, Utah, Texas, New York and even Italy this year, and Taylor believes having children will put a damper on their travel plans.

The couple have serious travel plans and want to visit Mexico, Colorado, Utah, Texas, New York and Italy this year – which would be difficult to do with the family
She said: “We have friends with young children and we can see how much it stops their lives.
“You rarely see a couple with a newborn going to Tahiti. The children are so dependent on you.’
Taylor and Justin love their spontaneous lifestyle and “don’t want” to give it up to have children.
They enjoy working out together at the beach, having drinks at lunch, playing golf after work and hanging out with friends on the weekends.
Taylor said, “Our schedule is really up to us. We love spontaneous plans, and when you have kids, that’s impossible.”
Taylor also believes that not having kids helps keep the spark alive in the bedroom.

Globetrotters: The couple say they want to finalize their travel plans before they start a family and lose the freedom to roam the world
She said, “You’re not that tired, so you can have wild sex nights during the week if you want.”
“You work out together in the morning, so the foreplay starts as soon as you wake up.
“By the end of the night, you want to jump on the bones of your partners. When you have kids, you don’t have time for that.”
Taylor is “terrified” about the impact a baby would have on her marriage and wants to be financially stable before thinking about having children.
She said: “Your life becomes all about your baby and you forget about yourself and your marriage.

Taylor points out that not only do they prioritize travel, but when they start having children, they lose their identity and their marriage.
“Maintaining your independence in a relationship is very important, but it becomes very difficult with children because they depend on you so much.
“It’s hard to keep your identity.
“Giving birth to a child is expensive. I want to buy a house and have a good 10-15k before I think about having a baby.
“We want to wait until we are financially ready to have children, do most of the traveling and give our children a better life.
“I want to be a person whose life doesn’t stop when they have children.

The couple say they want to enjoy their relationship together now and then think about children in the future when the time comes
“I’m afraid of being a bad parent, so I better take care of myself first.
“When you have kids, your weekends are over, date nights are over – forget about it – and intimacy is over.
“Financially and morally we are not ready. I still want to spend time and have fun with my husband.
“Right now we’re really enjoying being young and in love, and we don’t feel the need to have kids anytime soon.”
Justin said: “I’m very much on the same page. I want kids eventually, but right now I just want to enjoy my time with Taylor and enjoy our relationship.’